几年前,我从学校毕业,刚来丹佛工作时,一次开车去密苏里州的父母家过圣诞节。我在离俄克拉何马城约50英里的一个加油站停了下来,准备去看望一位朋友。我加满油,在收银台前排着队,并跟一对也在交款的老夫妇打了个招呼。
我驾车离开,走了不过几英里,汽车的排气管就冒出了浓浓黑烟。我把车停在路边,想着该怎么办。
一辆车在我身后停了下来。原来是刚才在加油站问候过的那对老夫妇。他们说可以把我送到我朋友家。我们在进城途中聊了一路,下车时,老先生把他的名片给了我。
后来,我写了一封感谢信感谢他们对我的帮助。很快,我就收到了他们寄来的圣诞包裹,并附有一张纸条,上面说,他们的假期因为帮助我而充满意义。
多年后,在一个雾蒙蒙的早晨,我驾车去附近的一个城镇参加会议。黄昏时,我回到车前,发现车灯一整天都亮着,蓄电池的电已经耗完了。就在那时,我看到旁边正好是“福特经销处”。走过去,发现两个销售员正在展厅里休息,店里并没有什么顾客。
“请问福特公司可以帮我一个忙吗?”我问道,并解释着自己遇到的麻烦。
很快,他们就开着一辆轻便小汽车来到我的车前,接上跳线的电缆,开动了我的车。他们没有接受任何报酬,因此当我回到家时,我就为他们写了一封感谢信。
后来我收到其中一位销售员的回信。他说,从来都没有人会花时间写信对他说谢谢,这封信对他来说意义深远。
几年后,朋友的丈夫帕特去世了。他曾在一家大医院工作,是一位受人尊敬的医生,因此家里收到了数百张卡片。其中一张极富同情的卡片,是曾为他们家工作过的水管工送的。他在卡片上写道,当帕特为他付工钱时曾在发票上写道:“谢谢您完美的工作。”
“谢谢”——多么有力的两个字。他们很容易说出口,但意义非凡。
■心灵小语
“谢谢”,简单的两个字,却蕴涵着无限深情和意义。别人为你做的哪怕丁点儿的小事,你会心存感激并说出“谢谢”二字吗?你会对身边所发生的一切存有一份感激之心吗?请记住:当你遇到不懂的事情,要感谢它让你有了一次学习的机会;当你遇到挫折,要感谢它让你经历成长;当你犯错时,要感谢它让你得到了宝贵的教训。说声“谢谢”并不难,它会使你的生活更加充实,更加意义非凡。
All+It+Took+Was+Two+Words
Veda+Boyd+Jones
Many+years+ago,+when+I+was+fresh+out+of+school+working+in+Denver,+I+was+driving+to+my+parents’+home+in+Missouri+for+Christmas.+I+stopped+at+a+gas+station+about+50+miles+from+Oklahoma+City,+where+I+was+planning+to+stop+and+visit+a+friend.+I+pumped+the+tank+full,+stood+in+line+at+the+cash+register,+and+said+hello+to+an+older+couple+who+were+also+paying+for+gas.
I+took+off,+but+had+gone+only+a+few+miles+when+black+smoke+poured+from+my+exhaust+pipe.+I+pulled+over+and+wondered+what+I+should+do.
A+car+pulled+up+behind+me.+It+was+the+couple+I+had+spoken+to+at+the+gas+station.+They+said+they+would+take+me+to+my+friend’s.+We+chatted+on+the+way+into+the+city,+and+when+I+got+out+of+the+car,+the+husband+gave+me+his+business+card.
I+wrote+him+and+his+wife+a+thankyou+note+for+rescuing+me.+Soon+afterward,+I+received+a+Christmas+package+from+them.+Their+note+that+came+with+it+said+that+helping+me+had+made+their+holidays+meaningful.
Years+later,+I+drove+through+a+foggy+morning+to+a+conference+in+a+nearby+town.+In+late+afternoon+I+returned+to+my+car+and+found+that+I’d+left+the+lights+on+all+day,+and+the+battery+was+dead.+Then+I+noticed+that+the+Friendly+Ford+dealership+was+right+next+door.+I+walked+over+and+found+two+salesmen+relaxing+in+a+showroom+devoid+of+customers.
“Just+how+friendly+is+Friendly+Ford?”+I+asked+and+explained+my+trouble.
They+quickly+drove+a+pickup+truck+to+my+car,+attached+jumper+cables,+and+started+my+car.+They+would+accept+no+payment,+so+when+I+got+home,+I+wrote+them+a+note+to+say+thanks.
I+received+a+letter+back+from+one+of+the+salesmen.+No+one+had+ever+taken+the+time+to+write+him+and+say+thank+you,+and+it+meant+a+lot,+he+said.
Another+few+years+had+passed+when+a+friend’s+husband+died.+Pat+had+been+a+wellrespected+doctor+at+a+big+hospital,+and+hundreds+of+cards+were+sent+to+the+family.+Among+them+was+a+sympathy+card+from+a+plumber+who+had+once+worked+at+their+house.+He+wrote+that+when+Pat+had+paid+the+bill,+he+wrote+on+the+invoice,+“Thank+you+for+a+good+job.”
“Thank+you”—the+two+powerful+words.+They’re+easy+to+say+and+mean+so+much
第五卷你的生命是个奇迹
Miraole,YourLife!
她把头从臂弯里抬起来,告诉我,父亲说教练的想法是错误的,他们根本不懂梦想的力量。他告诉她,如果她真想去一个好大学打球并获得奖学金,除了自己的态度,没有什么能阻止她,他一再说,“只要心中有梦,就永不言败。”
追随梦想
佚名
我的朋友蒙提&#8226罗伯兹在圣思多罗有一个牧马场。他那宽敞的住宅经常被我借用来举办筹募活动,募集的资金用来资助青少年冒险计划。
上次活动,他在致辞中说:“我把房子借用给杰克是有原因的。这个故事要从一个小男孩说起,他父亲是个马术师,他从小就跟着父亲东奔西跑,求学过程并不顺利。读初中时,有一次,老师让全班同学写作文,题目是‘我的梦想’”。
“那晚,他一气呵成,整整写了七页,描述他的宏图大志:拥有一座属于自己的牧马场,他仔细画了一张200亩农场的设计图,上面标有马厩、跑道等位置,还要在农场中央建造一栋占地4000平方英尺的豪宅。”
“他费尽心思写完作文,第二天交给老师。两天后文章发下来,一个又红又大的F赫然出现在第一页,旁边还有一行字:下课后来找我。”
“下课后,他满脑子幻想,拿着作文去找老师:‘为什么给我不及格呢?’老师答道:‘你年龄还小,理想太不切实际了。你没钱,没背景,一无所有。盖农场是一个大工程,要花很多钱;你还要买地、买纯种马匹、雇人照料。对于你来说,这些都是不可能的。’他接着又说,‘如果你愿意重写一个现实的理想,我会重新给你打分。’”
“男孩回家后,辗转反侧,思考了很久。后来征求父亲的意见。父亲对他说:‘儿子,这个决定很重要,你要自己慎重考虑。’”
“经过几天的深思熟虑后,他决定原封不动地交回原稿。他告诉老师:‘就算得大红F,我也绝不放弃梦想。’”
这时蒙提对大家说:“我讲这个故事,是因为各位现在就坐在200亩的农场,占地4000平方英尺的豪华住宅里。我至今还保留着初中时写的那篇作文。”他顿了顿说,“有趣的是,那位老师,在两年前的夏天,带着他的30个学生来我的农场露营一周。他离开前对我说:‘蒙提,你看,说来惭愧。我做你老师的时候,曾打击过你,这些年,我似乎对很多学生都这样做过。幸好你有毅力坚持自己的梦想。’”
不管怎样,都要追随自己的梦想,不要被别人的一句话所击退。
Follow+Your+Dream
Anonymous
I+have+a+friend+named+Monty+Roberts+who+owns+a+horse+ranch+in+San+Ysidro.+He+has+let+me+use+his+house+to+put+on+fundraising+events+to+raise+money+for+youth+at+risk+programs.+
The+last+time+I+was+there+he+introduced+me+by+saying,+“I+want+to+tell+you+why+I+let+Jack+use+my+house.+It+all+goes+back+to+a+story+about+a+young+man+who+was+the+son+of+an+itinerant1+horse+trainer+who+would+go+from+stable+to+stable,+race+track+to+race+track,+farm+to+farm+and+ranch2+to+ranch,+training+horses.+As+a+result,+the+boy’s+high+school+career+was+continually+interrupted.+When+he+was+a+senior,+he+was+asked+to+write+a+paper+about+what+he+wanted+to+be+and+do+when+he+grew+up.
“That+night+he+wrote+a+sevenpage+paper+describing+his+goal+of+someday+owning+a+horse+ranch.+He+wrote+about+his+dream+in+great+detail+and+he+even+drew+a+diagram+of+a+200acre+ranch,+showing+the+location+of+all+the+buildings,+the+stables+and+the+track.+Then+he+drew+a+detailed+floor+plan+for+a+4,000squarefoot+house+that+would+sit+on+a+200acre+dream+ranch.+
“He+put+a+great+deal+of+his+heart+into+the+project+and+the+next+day+he+handed+it+in+to+his+teacher.+Two+days+later+he+received+his+paper+back.+On+the+front+page+was+a+large+red+F+with+a+note+that+read,+‘See+me+after+class.’+
“The+boy+with+the+dream+went+to+see+the+teacher+after+class+and+asked,+‘Why+did+I+receive+an+F?’+The+teacher+said,+‘This+is+an+unrealistic+dream+for+a+young+boy+like+you.+You+have+no+money.+You+come+from+an+itinerant+family.+You+have+no+resources.+Owning+a+horse+ranch+requires+a+lot+of+money.+You+have+to+buy+the+land.+You+have+to+pay+for+the+original+breeding+stock+and+later+you’ll+have+to+pay+large+stud3+fees.+There’s+no+way+you+could+ever+do+it.’+Then+the+teacher+added,+‘if+you+will+rewrite+this+paper+with+a+more+realistic+goal,+I+will+reconsider+your+grade.’
“The+boy+went+home+and+thought+about+it+long+and+hard.+He+asked+his+father+what+he+should+do.+His+father+said,+‘Look,+son,+you+have+to+make+up+your+own+mind+on+this.+However,+I+think+it+is+a+very+important+decision+for+you.’+
“Finally,+after+sitting+with+it+for+a+week,+the+boy+turned+in+the+same+paper,+making+no+changes+at+all.+He+stated,+‘You+can+keep+the+F+and+I’ll+keep+my+dream.’”+
Monty+then+turned+to+the+assembled4+group+and+said,+“I+tell+you+this+story+because+you+are+sitting+in+my+4000squarefoot+house+in+the+middle+of+my+200acre+horse+ranch.+I+still+have+that+school+paper+framed+over+the+fireplace.”+He+added,+“The+best+part+of+the+story+is+that+two+summers+ago+that+same+schoolteacher+brought+30+kids+to+camp+out5+on+my+ranch+for+a+week.+”When+the+teacher+was+leaving,+he+said,+‘Look,+Monty,+I+can+tell+you+this+now.+When+I+was+your+teacher,+I+was+something+of+a+dream+stealer.+During+those+years+I+stole+a+lot+of+kids’+dreams.+Fortunately+you+had+enough+gumption6+not+to+give+up+on+yours.’”+
Don’t+let+anyone+steal+your+dreams.+Follow+your+heart,+no+matter+what.
追梦人
佚名
9岁时,我住在北卡罗来纳州的一个小镇上。在一本儿童杂志的封底,我看到一则招聘贺卡推销员的广告,认为自己能胜任。征得妈妈的同意后,我让人把全套货物送来。两周后,货到了,我把棕色包装纸扯开,抓起卡片,就冲了出去。三个小时后,卡片卖光了,我的口袋里装满了钱,跑回家高喊着:“妈妈,人们都争先恐后地买我的贺卡!”一个推销员诞生了。
12岁时,父亲带我拜访齐格&#8226齐格勒先生。记得那时我们坐在昏暗的礼堂里听着齐格勒先生演说,他的话让所有人都受到了鼓舞,大家的情绪都很高昂。离开时我觉得自己无所不能了。上车后,我对父亲说:“爸爸,我也想让人们有这样的感觉。”爸爸问我是什么意思。“我想成为齐格勒先生那样的动员演说者。”我答道。一个梦想诞生了。
最近,我开始鼓动他人,激励他们实现自己的梦想。此前的四年里,我在一个拥有100家公司的财团工作,从一个销售培训员做到地区销售经理,在事业达到巅峰时我离开了公司。很多人不理解,我为什么会放弃六位数的高薪,去冒险实现自己的梦想。
我是在参加了一次地区销售会议后,决定离开安全港湾,自己开创公司的。那次会议上,公司副总裁作的一次演说,改变了我的命运。他问我们:“如果一个神能满足你三个愿望,那你希望得到什么?”他让我们把自己的愿望写下来,然后问:“你们为什么需要神呢?”那一刻,这句话让我震撼不已,令我永生难忘。
我意识到自己拥有成功所具备的一切条件:毕业文凭、成功的销售经验、无数的演讲经历,在一个拥有100家公司的财团做过销售培训和管理工作。要成为一名动员演说者,我已经准备好了,无须神的帮助。
当我含泪把计划告诉老板时,这位我所敬重的领导,出乎意料地说:“勇往向前吧!你一定会成功。”
我刚决定下来,便遇到了考验。辞职一周后,丈夫也失业了。我们刚买了一栋新房子,需要双方用工资来支付每月的抵押贷款,可现在却一分收入都没有。此时我想重返公司,我知道他们仍想接纳我,但也知道一旦回去就很难再出来了,我下定决心继续前行,决不做一个满口“如果”,却不付诸行动的人,一个动员演说者诞生了。
我紧追自己的梦想。即使是在最艰苦的时候也不曾放弃,最终奇迹出现了。丈夫在较短的时间内找到了一份满意的工作,我们一个月的抵押贷款都没拖欠。我也开始有新客户预约演说了。我发现了梦想的无穷力量。我喜欢先前的工作、同事和离开的那家公司,但我实现梦想的时机已成熟。为了庆贺成功,我请当地一位艺术家把新办公室改造成一座花园,在一面墙的顶端印了这么一句话:“机会总是垂青有准备的头脑。”
■心灵小语
机会总是垂青有准备的头脑,只要执着地追逐自己的梦想,终有一天会好梦成真。文中的主人公在小小的年纪,就开始拥有自己的梦想,并为之而奋斗,让一个又一个梦想都成为了现实。在遭遇挫败的时候,她也没有轻言放弃,而是勇往直前地追逐直到实现梦想。
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The+Dreamer
Anonymous
When+I+was+nine+years+old+living+in+a+small+town+in+North+Carolina,+I+found+all+ads+for+selling+greeting+cards+in+the+back+of+a+children’s+magazine.+I+thought+to+myself+I+can+do+this.+I+begged+my+mother+to+let+me+send+for+the+kit.+Two+weeks+later+when+the+kit+arrived,+I+ripped+off+the+brown+paper+wrapper,+grabbed+the+cards+and+dashed+from+the+house.+Three+hours+later,+I+returned+home+with+no+card+and+a+pocket+full+of+money+proclaiming1,+“Mama,+all+the+people+couldn’t+wait+to+buy+my+cards!”+A+salesperson+was+born.
When+I+was+twelve+years+old,+my+father+took+me+to+see+Zig+Zigler.+I+remembered+sitting+in+that+dark+auditorium+listening+to+Mr.+Zigler+raise+everyone’s+spirits+up+to+the+ceiling.+I+left+there+feeling+like+I+could+do+anything.+When+we+got+to+the+car,+I+turned+to+my+father+and+said,+“Dad,+I+want+to+make+people+feel+like+that.”+My+father+asked+me+what+I+meant.+“I+want+to+be+a+motivational2+speaker+just+like+Mr.+Zigler!”+I+replied.+A+dream+was+born.m.bīQikμ.ИěΤ
Recently,+I+began+pursuing+my+dream+of+motivating+others.+After+a+4year+relationship+with+a+major+fortune+100+company+beginning+as+a+sales+trainer+and+ending+as+a+regional+sales+manager,+I+left+the+company+at+the+height+of+my+career.+Many+people+were+astounded3+that+I+would+leave+after+earning+a+sixfigure+income.+And+they+asked+why+I+would+risk+everything+for+a+dream.
I+made+my+decision+to+start+my+own+company+and+leave+my+secure+position+after+attending+a+regional+sales+meeting.+The+vicepresident+of+our+company+delivered+a+speech+that+changed+my+life.+He+asked+us,+“If+a+genie+would+grant+you+three+wishes+what+would+they+be?”+After+giving+us+a+moment+to+write+down+the+three+wishes,+he+then+asked+us,+“Why+do+you+need+a+genie?”+I+would+never+forget+the+empowerment+I+felt+at+that+moment.
I+realized+that+everything+I+had+accomplished—the+graduate+degree,+the+successful+sales+career,+speaking+engagements,+training+and+managing+for+a+fortune+100+company—had+prepared+me+for+this+moment.+I+was+ready+and+did+not+need+a+genie’s+help+to+become+a+motivational+speaker.
When+I+tearfully+told+my+boss+my+plans,+this+incredible+leader+whom+I+respect+so+much+replied,+“Precede+with+reckless+abandon+and+you+will+be+successful.”
Having+made+that+decision,+I+was+immediately+tested.+One+week+after+I+gave+notice,+my+husband+was+laid+off+from+his+job.+We+had+recently+bought+a+new+house+and+needed+both+incomes+to+make+the+monthly+mortgage4+payment+and+now+we+were+done+to+no+income.+It+was+tempting+to+turn+back+to+my+former+company,+knowing+they+wanted+me+to+stay+but+I+was+certain+that+if+I+went+back,+I+would+never+leave.+I+decided+I+still+wanted+to+move+forward+rather+than+end+up+with+a+mouth+full+of+“if+onlys”+later+on.+A+motivational+speaker+was+born.
When+I+held+fast+to+my+dream,+even+during+the+tough+times,+the+miracles+really+began+to+happen.+In+a+short+period+my+husband+found+a+better+job.+We+didn’t+miss+a+mortgage+payment.+And+I+was+able+to+book+several+speaking+engagements+with+new+clients.+I+discovered+the+incredible+power+of+dreams.+I+loved+my+old+job,+my+peers+and+the+company+I+left,+but+it+was+time+to+get+on+with+my+dream.+To+celebrate+my+success+I+had+a+local+artist+paint+my+new+office+as+a+garden.+At+the+top+of+one+wall+she+stenciled5,+“The+world+always+makes+way+for+the+dreamer.”
明尼苏达州的梦想家
佚名
我一直都有计划,即使在我一个梦想都没有的时候。在读大学期间,我学会了做人要有责任感,做事要讲究条理,要树立切实可行的目标。从那以后,所有的事情都发生了变化。去年,大学毕业前的一周是我终生难忘的日子。大学毕业的前几天,我在离家很远的地方被诊断为脑瘤。我陷入了绝望,独自从医院里跑了出来,泪水止不住地掉下来,我不知道将来的生活会是什么样子。生活在瞬间变得无法预测,我感到茫然。尽管在好友的安慰下痛苦缓解了许多,然而,我无法在他们面前掩饰自己对死亡的恐惧。尽管烦乱至极,不知道什么原因,我还是完成了考试。
我的朋友们正忙着毕业、庆祝,急切地掀开新的生活篇章,我却无法加入他们,不能与他们一起庆祝,我逐渐发现自己变得与众不同了。我饶有兴趣地观察身边的人对我生病消息的反应。一些人因为不知道跟我说些什么而远离我;一些人的反应富于戏剧性;还有一些人好像什么都没有发生过一样,而当我面对这些人时却备感舒服。
几天之内,我收拾好了学校里的所有行李,回家与家人一起面对这突如其来的不幸。到家后,我马上去找高中时最好的朋友,高三那年她患了癌症。我知道,她能够给我与疾病作战的勇气,因为四年前,我亲眼目睹了她勇敢地克服了诸多磨难。
在切除肿瘤手术的日子来临的那段时间,剧烈的病痛折磨着我的身体。我一边想随它去,一边又感到极度烦乱,建立起来的精神支柱濒临崩溃的边缘。身边的其他人都健健康康地活着,我却要遭受病痛的折磨,这让我变得非常愤怒。我经常问自己:为什么会是我?
就在这个时候,一些令人惊奇的事情发生了,这使我开始以全新的眼光看待周围所有美好的事物。我开始关注那些极其微小的事情,曾经,我忽略了它们的存在。我注意到,当花一点时间去享受落日时,你就会发现那是多么缤纷和平静;从山腰飘落下来的绿色叶片,看起来是那么鲜亮;只要听听小孩子的笑声,我在一天中所受到的煎熬马上就会消失得无影无踪。
我从手术中醒来后,感激自己健康地活了下来,这真是不可思议。我获得了第二次生命,那一刻心中充满了难以言表的幸福感。我要重新学习走路、做一些简单的事情,所以身体完全恢复是一个很长的过程。记得,在回到家里之后,我第一次仔细地看自己光秃秃的脑袋,这令我惊讶,其实,我本不该如此。具有讽刺意味的是,之前我把头发剪短捐给了美国癌症学会,一个月之后被诊断为患有脑瘤。我发现,短发和没有头发简直有着天壤之别。
生活会在你意想不到的时候捉弄你一下,这是必然的。既然我有了这个新的开始,我就要珍惜生命的每一分钟。以前,我常常听别人说,你不要梦想那些不可能的事情,我也总是喜欢按部就班。现在,心怀梦想,跟着内心的渴望向前走,而不必考虑结果如何,成了剩余的时间我所要做的唯一的一件事。
■心灵小语
生命会因为调整而改变方向,你也会因此看到许多以前不曾看到的美丽风景。昔日看似平凡的生活,也会出现许多意想不到的奇迹。学会梦想,这会成为你今天的快乐,或许还会成为明天的现实。
Minnesota+Dreamer
Anonymous
Even+if+I+did+not+have+a+dream,+I+always+had+a+plan.+In+college,+I+learned+to+be+responsible+and+organized+and+to+set+goals+that+I+could+attain.+Then+everything+changed.+I+will+never+forget+my+final+week+from+college+last+year.+Days+away+from+graduation+and+miles+away+from+home,+I+was+diagnosed1+with+a+brain+tumor.+I+left+the+hospital+alone,+in+devastation.+Unsure+of+what+my+future+would+hold,+I+shed+countless+tears.+Life+suddenly+became+an+unforeseeable+thing,+and+I+could+not+know+what+to+do.+Although+close+friends+eased+the+pain,+I+could+not+hide+from+them+my+fear+of+facing+death.+Somehow,+I+managed+to+complete+the+exams+in+spite+of+my+jangled2+nerves.+
I+began+to+feel+different+from+everyone+else,+since+my+friends+were+graduating,+celebrating,+and+eager+to+move+on+to+new+chapters+in+their+lives.+But+I+could+not+join+them+and+celebrate+with+them.+I+especially+found+it+interesting+to+see+how+others+around+me+dealt+with+my+news.+Some+acted+suddenly+distant+for+lack+of+words,+some+dramatized+the+whole+thing,+and+some+acted+perfectly+normal,+which+felt+the+most+comfortable+for+me.+
Within+days,+I+had+packed+up+all+of+my+college+belongings+and+headed+home+with+my+family+ready+to+face+this+unexpected+hurdle.+I+immediately+turned+to+my+best+friend+from+high+school.+She+had+gone+through+cancer+in+our+senior+year,+and+because+of+watching+her+courageously+overcome+so+many+obstacles3+four+years+before,+I+knew+she+could+give+me+the+fuel+I+needed+for+my+own+battle.+
As+my+surgery+date+to+remove+the+tumor+got+closer,+I+was+experiencing+intense+physical+pain.+Part+of+me+wanted+it+over+with+and+the+other+part+of+me+was+coming+unglued.+The+wall+of+strength+I+had+built+was+crumbling.+I+was+so+angry+that+I+had+to+go+through+this+when+all+those+around+me+were+going+on+with+their+lives.+I+spent+a+lot+of+time+asking,+why+me?+
But+something+wonderful+started+happening+in+the+midst+of+all+this.+I+began+to+see+all+the+beauty+around+me+in+a+wholly+new+way.+The+smallest+things+that+I+neglected+before+started+to+catch+my+eyes.+I+noticed+how+colorful+and+serene4+a+sunset+could+be+when+you+took+time+to+enjoy+it.+Blades+of+grass+cascading5+along+hillsides+looked+a+brighter+shade+of+green.+A+small+child’+s+laughter+became+an+instant+remedy+for+a+bad+day.+
Miraculously,+I+woke+up+from+surgery+grateful+to+be+alive+and+well.+Words+cannot+describe+the+happiness+I+felt+at+that+special+moment—to+be+given+a+second+chance.+My+recovery+was+a+long+process+as+I+learned+to+walk+again+and+so+simple+tasks.+I+remember+when+I+went+home+and+studied+my+bald+head+for+the+first+time.+It+shouldn’t+have+surprised+me,+but+it+did!+Ironically,+a+month+before+I+knew+I+had+a+tumor,+I+cut+my+long+hair+short+and+donated6+it+to+the+American+Cancer+Society.+I+discovered+there+is+a+huge+difference+between+short+and+bald!+
Life+can+sure+throw+a+good+curve+ball+when+you+least+expect+it.+Yet+I+have+had+this+new+start,+and+I+am+enjoying+every+minute+of+it.+I+used+to+hear+people+say+you+should+dream+the+unimaginable,+and+I+always+preferred+to+plan+instead.+Now,+dreaming+big+and+following+my+heart’s+desire+without+knowing+how+it+will+end+up+is+the+only+thing+I+have+time+to+do.
为了心中的梦想
佚名
透过厨房的窗户,我经常看见她穿梭于操场上,挤在一群男孩子中间,显得格外瘦小。学校就在我家街道对面,课间休息时,我经常能看见很多孩子在操场上打球,但总觉得,她与众不同。
我还记得第一天看到她打篮球的情景。看着她在其他孩子身边绕来绕去,我感到非常奇怪。她总是设法让球快速飞跃他们的头顶,进入篮筐,那些男孩子拼命阻止,但没人做得到。
我开始注意到,她有时也会一个人打篮球,反复地练习运球和投篮,直到天黑。一天,我问她为什么这样刻苦练习。她直视我的眼睛,不假思索地说:“我想上大学,唯一的方法就是获得奖学金。我喜欢打篮球,我想只要我打得好,就能获得奖学金,到大学里打篮球了,我还想成为最优秀的球员。父亲告诉我,只要心中有梦想,什么也难不倒。”说完,她笑着跑向篮球场,又开始了无数次的我曾看到的练习。
我很佩服她的恒心。看着她从初中升到高中。每个星期,她带领的校篮球队都能取得胜利。
她读高中的一天,我见她坐在草地上,头埋在臂弯里,便穿过街道,坐在她身旁的草地上。我轻声问她发生了什么事。“噢,没什么,”她轻声地回答我,“只是我个子太矮了。”教练告诉她,5.5英尺的身高绝对达不到一流球队的标准——更别说拿奖学金了——所以她应该放弃大学梦。
她沮丧极了,见她如此失望,我也很难过,便问她是否和父亲谈过此事。
她把头从臂弯里抬起来,告诉我,父亲说教练的想法是错误的,他们根本不懂梦想的力量。他告诉她,如果她真想去一个好大学打球并获得奖学金,除了自己的态度,没有什么能阻止她,他一再说,“只要心中有梦,就永不言败。”
一年后,当她和她的球队去参加北加利福尼亚州冠军赛时,被一位大学的招生人员看中。她真的获得了奖学金,并且是全额,同时进入了全国大学体育协会其中之一的女子甲组篮球队。她将接受梦寐以求并为之奋斗了多年的大学教育。
的确,只要心中有梦想,就要永不言败。
If+the+Dream+Is+Big+Enough
Anonymous
I+used+to+watch+her+from+my+kitchen+window,+she+seemed+so+small+as+she+muscled1+her+way+through+the+crowd+of+boys+on+the+playground.+The+school+was+across+the+street+from+our+home+and+I+would+often+watch+the+kids+as+they+played+during+recess2.+A+sea+of+children,+and+yet+to+me,+she+stood+out+from+them+all.
I+remember+the+first+day+I+saw+her+playing+basketball.+I+watched+in+wonder+as+she+ran+circles+around+the+other+kids.+She+managed+to+shoot+jump+shots+just+over+their+heads+and+into+the+net.+The+boys+always+tried+to+stop+her+but+no+one+could.
I+began+to+notice+her+at+other+times,+basketball+in+hand,+playing+alone.+She+would+practice+dribbling3+and+shooting+over+and+over+again,+sometimes+until+dark.+One+day+I+asked+her+why+she+practiced+so+much.+She+looked+directly+in+my+eyes+and+without+a+moment+of+hesitation4+she+said,+“I+want+to+go+to+college.+The+only+way+I+can+go+is+if+I+get+a+scholarship.+I+like+basketball.+I+decided+that+if+I+were+good+enough,+I+would+get+a+scholarship.+I+am+going+to+play+college+basketball.+I+want+to+be+the+best.+My+daddy+told+me+if+the+dream+is+big+enough,+the+facts+don’t+count5.”+Then+she+smiled+and+ran+towards+the+court+to+recap+the+routine6+I+had+seen+over+and+over+again.
Well,+I+had+to+give+it+to+her—she+was+determined.+I+watched+her+through+those+junior+high+years+and+into+high+school.+Every+week,+she+led+her+varsity7+team+to+victory.
One+day+in+her+senior+year,+I+saw+her+sitting+in+the+grass,+with+head+cradled+in+her+arms.+I+walked+across+the+street+and+sat+down+in+the+cool+grass+beside+her.+Quietly+I+asked+what+was+wrong.+“Oh,+nothing.”+came+a+soft+reply.+“I+am+just+too+short.”+The+coach+told+her+that+at+5’5”+she+would+probably+never+get+to+play+for+a+top+ranked+team—much+less+offered+a+scholarship—so+she+should+stop+dreaming+about+college.
She+was+heartbroken+and+l+felt+my+own+throat+tighten+as+I+sensed+her+disappointment.+I+asked+her+if+she+had+talked+to+her+dad+about+it+yet.
She+lifted+her+head+from+her+hands+and+told+me+that+her+father+said+those+coaches8+were+wrong.+They+just+did+not+understand+the+power+of+a+dream.+He+told+her+that+if+she+really+wanted+to+play+for+a+good+college,+if+she+truly+wanted+a+scholarship,+that+nothing+could+stop+her+except+one+thing—her+own+attitude.+He+told+her+again,+”If+the+dream+is+big+enough,+the+facts+don’t+count.”
The+next+year,+as+she+and+her+team+went+to+the+Northern+California+Championship+game,+she+was+seen+by+a+college+recruiter9.+She+was+indeed+offered+a+scholarship,+a+full+ride,+to+a+Division+I,+NCAA+women’s+basketball+team.+She+was+going+to+get+the+college+education+that+she+had+dreamed+of10+and+worked+toward+for+all+those+years.
It’s+true:+if+the+dream+is+big+enough,+the+facts+don’t+count.
七美元的梦想
佚名
求购:小提琴,支付能力有限,请拨打电话……
我怎么会注意到这个呢?我很少看分类广告。我把报纸放在腿上,闭上眼睛,大萧条时期的事历历在目。那时,我们一家人在农场生活。我很想有一把小提琴,但家里没钱买……
当我的双胞胎姐姐们开始对音乐产生兴趣,哈里特&#8226安开始学习弹外婆的竖式钢琴时,苏珊娜也开始拉父亲的小提琴了,随着两姐妹不断练习,简单的曲调很快变成了优美的旋律。伴着令人陶醉的乐曲,爸爸低哼着调子,妈妈吹着口哨,就连不到一岁的弟弟也跳起了舞。而我,只是默默地听着。
等我的胳膊足够长时,我试着拉苏珊娜的小提琴。我喜欢硬朗的琴弓拉过琴弦发出的圆润柔美的声音。噢,我多想要一把小提琴啊!但那是不可能的。
一天傍晚,当她们在学校管弦乐队演奏时,我紧闭双眼,尽力把这个场景定格在脑海中。我暗自发誓,总有一天,我也会坐在那里。
那年我们的日子过得很清苦。收获时,庄稼的产量比预料的要低。我实在按捺不住对小提琴的渴求:“爸爸,我能拥有自己的小提琴吗?”
“你就不能用苏珊娜的吗?”
“我也想参加管弦乐队,我们不能同时用一把小提琴。”
父亲看上去很难过。自那晚后,我每天晚上都能听到父亲给全家祈祷时提到我的愿望,“……上帝啊,玛丽&#8226卢想拥有一把属于自己的小提琴。”
一个傍晚,我们围坐在桌旁。双胞胎姐妹在做功课,妈妈在缝衣服,父亲给他在哥伦布的朋友乔治&#8226菲克写信。他说菲克先生是个很棒的小提琴家。
父亲边写边把信中的大部分内容大声地念给母亲听。几个星期后,我发现他有一段话没念出来——“您能帮我的三女儿找一把小提琴吗?我付不起太多钱,但她酷爱音乐,我们也希望她能有自己的乐器。”
数周后,当父亲收到了一封来自哥伦布的信时,他就宣布:“等找到照顾农场的人,我们就开车去哥伦布艾丽丝姨妈那里。”
那天终于来了,我们开车到了艾丽丝姨妈家后,我听见父亲打了个电话。之后,他问我:“玛丽&#8226卢,你想和我一起去拜访菲克先生吗?”
“当然想。”我回答。
我们驱车到了一个住宅区,停在一所典雅的旧房子的车道上。我们走上台阶,按响门铃。一个比父亲年纪大的高个儿先生开了门,“请进!”他和父亲热烈地握手,二人立刻攀谈起来。
“玛丽&#8226卢,我听说了你的事,你爸爸给你准备了一份大惊喜!”菲克先生把我们带到了客厅,拿起一个盒子,打开后,取出一把小提琴开始拉起来。优美的旋律如瀑布般倾泻下来。噢,我真想演奏得像他那么棒!
一曲过后,菲克先生对父亲说:“卡尔,这是我在一家当铺用七美元买下的,很不错。玛丽&#8226卢可以用它拉出动听的曲子。”接着,他把小提琴交给了我。
看到父亲的眼中噙着泪水,我终于明白,这是我的小提琴了。我轻抚着琴,这是一把金棕色的木制小提琴,在灯光下显得极其柔美。“好漂亮的琴啊,”我激动不已。
返回艾丽丝姨妈家,一进门,所有的目光都投向我们。我看见父亲冲母亲眨眼,我这才意识到,大家都知道此事,只有我还蒙在鼓里。父亲的祈祷和我的渴望最终得以实现。
我第一次拎着小提琴去学校上课的那天,内心无比激动。一连几个月,我每天不停地练习,感受着下巴下那温暖的木制琴面,似乎它是我身体的延伸。
当我准备好参加学校管弦乐队时,兴奋不已。我身着女王礼服般的白色乐队服,坐在第三排。
第一次参加学校的一个小歌剧公开演出,我的心狂跳不止。礼堂里坐满了人,当我们调试乐器时,观众席上传来了兴奋的谈话声。接着,我们开始演奏了,聚光灯集中到我们身上,全场静了下来。我敢肯定,每位听众都看着我。爸爸妈妈自豪地看着他们的小女儿,欣慰地笑着,他们的女儿正扮演着一个令世人羡幕的角色,拿着自己心爱的小提琴演奏着美妙的乐章。
时光飞逝,到姐姐们毕业时,我的小提琴已经拉得很棒了。
两年后,我毕业了。我把心爱的小提琴放入琴盒,这时,我也步入了成人世界。护士培训,结婚,在医院工作,抚养四个女儿占据了我这些年的大部分生活。
许多年过去了,这把小提琴一直跟随着我们。每每打开它,我就回忆起曾经是多么地珍爱它,并暗下决心,总有一天,我还要拉小提琴。
我的孩子对这把小提琴都满不在乎,他们一个个地结婚,离开了家……
此刻,我正拿着一张登有求购广告的报纸。努力让思绪回到现实,于是又读了一遍这张勾起我儿时记忆的广告。我把报纸放到一旁,自言自语道:“我必须找到我的小提琴。”
在壁橱的一个隐蔽处,我找到了琴盒。打开盒盖,我把放在玫瑰色天鹅绒衬套上的小提琴取了出来,抚摸着它金色的木壳,拨动琴弦,真是不可思议,它仍旧是那么完美无缺。我紧了紧琴弦,然后把松香放到干马尾毛上。
接着,我又拉起了心爱的小提琴,那些从未在记忆中消退的曲调在琴弦间跳动。我不知道自己拉了多久,又想起了父亲,是他满足了我儿时的心愿。我曾经感谢过父亲吗?
最后,我把小提琴放回琴盒,拿起报纸,走到电话机旁,拨通了那个号码。
天快黑时,一辆老车停在了我家车道上,一个三十多岁的男人叩响了门。“我一直都在祈祷有人回应我的广告。我女儿太想要一把小提琴了,”他说着,就开始看我的琴,“您要多少钱呢?”
我很清楚,无论是哪家音乐店铺都会高价收购我的琴。但我这样回答道:“七美元。”
“您确定吗?”他问道,这让我想起了父亲。
“七美元,”我又说了一遍,然后补充道,“我希望你女儿能喜欢它,就像我曾经那样。”
他走后,我关上门。透过窗帘的缝隙,我看到这个男人的妻子和孩子正在车上等着他。突然车门打开了,一个小女孩向他跑去,他把小提琴递给了她。
小女孩紧紧抱着小提琴,然后跪下来打开了琴盒。她轻轻抚摸着小提琴,这时,夕阳的余晖洒在琴上,发出异样的光芒。接着,小女孩转过身,抱住正在微笑的父亲。
A+Sevendollar+Dream
Anonymous
Wanted:+Violin.+Can’t+pay+much.+Call...
Why+did+I+notice+that?+I+wondered,+since+I+rarely+look+at+the+classified+ads.+I+laid+the+paper+on+my+lap+and+closed+my+eyes,+remembering+what+had+during+the+Great+Depression,+when+my+family+struggled+to+make+a+living+on+our+farm.+I,+too,+had+wanted+a+violin,+but+we+didn’t+have+the+money...
When+my+older+twin+sisters+began+showing+an+interest+in+music,+Harriet+Anne+learned+to+play+Grandma’s+upright+piano,+while+Suzanne+turned+to+Daddy’s+violin,+simple+tunes+soon+became+lovely+melodies+as+the+twins+played+more+and+more.+Caught+up+in+the+rhythm+of+the+music,+my+baby+brother+danced+around+while+Daddy+hummed+and+Mother+whistled.+I+just+listened.
When+my+arms+grew+long+enough,+I+tried+to+play+Suzanne’s+violin,+I+loved+the+mellow+sound+of+the+firm+bow+drawn+across+the+strings.+Oh,+how+I+wanted+one!+But+I+knew+it+was+out+of+the+question.
One+evening+as+the+twins+played+in+the+school+orchestra1,+I+closed+my+eyes+tightly+to+capture+the+picture+firmly+in+my+mind.+Someday,+I’ll+sit+up+there,+I+vowed+silently.
It+was+not+a+good+year.+At+harvest+the+crops+did+not+bring+as+much+as+we+had+hoped,+I+couldn’t+wait+any+longer+to+ask,+“Daddy,+may+I+have+a+violin+of+my+own?”
“Can’t+you+use+Suzanne’s?”
“I’d+like+to+be+in+the+orchestra,+too,+and+we+can’t+both+use+the+same+violin+at+the+same+time.”
Daddy’s+face+looked+sad.+That+night,+and+many+following+nights,+I+heard+him+remind+God+in+our+family+devotions,+“...and+Lord,+Mary+Lou+wants+her+own+violin.”
One+evening+we+all+sat+around+the+table.+The+twins+and+I+studied.+Mother+sewed,+and+Daddy+wrote+a+letter+to+his+friend,+George+Finkle,+in+Columbus.+Mr.+Finkle,+Daddy+said,+was+a+fine+violinist.
As+he+wrote,+Daddy+read+parts+of+his+letter+out+loud+to+Mother.+Weeks+later+I+discovered+he’d+written+one+line+he+didn’t+read+aloud,+“Would+you+watch+for+a+violin+for+my+third+daughter?+I+can’t+pay+much,+but+she+enjoys+music,+and+we’d+like+her+to+have+her+own+instrument.”
When+Daddy+received+a+letter+from+Columbus+a+few+weeks+later,+he+announced,+“We’ll+be+driving+to+Columbus+to+spend+the+night+with+Aunt+Alice+as+soon+as+I+can+find+someone+to+care+for+the+livestock2.”
At+last+the+day+arrived,+and+we+drove+to+Aunt+Alice’s.+After+we+arrived,+I+listened+while+Daddy+made+a+phone+call.+He+hung+up+and+asked,+“Mary+Lou,+do+you+want+to+go+with+me+to+visit+Mr.+Finkle?”
“Sure,”+I+answered.
He+drove+into+a+residential3+area+and+stopped+in+the+driveway+of+a+fine,+old+house.+We+walked+up+the+steps+and+rang+the+door+chime4.+A+tall+man,+older+than+Daddy,+opened+the+door.+“Come+in!”+He+and+Daddy+heartily+shook+hands,+both+talking+at+once.
“Mary+Lou,+I’ve+been+hearing+things+about+you.+Your+daddy+has+arranged+a+big+surprise+for+you!+”Mr.+Finkle+ushered+us+into+the+parlor.+He+picked+up+a+case,+opened+it,+lifted+out+a+violin+and+started+to+play.+The+melody+surged+and+spoke+like+waterfalls.+Oh,+to+play+like+him,+I+thought.
Finishing+the+number,+he+turned+to+Daddy,+“Carl,+I+found+it+in+a+pawnshop+for+seven+dollars.+It’s+a+good+violin.+Mary+Lou+should+be+able+to+make+beautiful+music+with+it.”+Then+he+handed+the+violin+to+me.+
I+noticed+the+tears+in+Daddy’s+eyes+as+I+finally+comprehended.+It+was+mine!+I+stroked+the+violin+gently.+The+wood+was+a+golden+brown+that+seemed+to+warm+in+the+light.+“It’s+beautiful,”+I+said,+barely+breathing.
When+we+arrived+back+at+Aunt+Alice’s,+all+eyes+turned+as+we+entered.+I+saw+Daddy+wink+at+mother,+and+then+I+realized+everyone+had+known+but+me.+I+know+Daddy’s+prayer,+and+mine,+had+been+answered.
The+day+I+carried+my+violin+to+school+for+my+first+lesson+no+one+could+imagine+the+bursting+feeling+in+my+heart.+Over+the+months+I+practiced+daily,+feeling+the+warm+wood+fit+under+my+chin+like+an+extension+of+myself.
When+I+was+ready+to+join+the+school+orchestra,+I+trembled+with+excitement.+I+sat+in+the+third+row+of+violins+and+wore+my+white+orchestra+jacket+like+a+royal+robe.
My+heart+beat+wildly+at+my+first+public+performance,+a+school+operetta.+The+auditorium5+filled+to+capacity+and+the+audience+buzzed+while+we+softly+tuned+our+instruments.+Then+the+spotlight+centered+on+us,+and+a+hush+fell+as+we+started+to+play.+I+felt+sure+everyone+in+the+audience+was+watching+me.+Daddy+and+mother+smiled+proudly+at+their+little+girl+who+held+her+cherished+violin+for+the+whole+world+to+admire.
The+years+seemed+to+run+more+swiftly+then.+And+by+the+time+my+sisters+graduated,+I+found+myself+in+the+firstviolin+chair.
Two+years+later,+I+graduated.+I+packed+my+cherished+violin+in+its+case+and+stepped+into+the+grownup+world.+Nurse’s+training,+marriage,+working+in+the+hospital,+rearing+four+daughters+filled+my+years.
More+years+passed.+My+violin+made+every+move+with+us,+and+I+unpackedbriefly+remembering+how+much+I+still+loved+it+and+promising+myself+to+play+it+soon.
None+of+my+children+cared+about+the+violin.+Later,+one+by+one,+they+married+and+left+home....
Now+here+I+was+with+the+newspaper+want+ads.+I+forced+my+thoughts+to+the+present+and+read+again+the+ad+that+had+transported+me+back+to+childhood+memories.+Laying+aside+the+paper,+I+murmured,+“I+must+find+my+violin.”
I+discovered+the+case+deep+in+the+recesses+of+my+closet.+Opening+the+lid,+I+lifted+the+violin+from+where+it+nestled+on+the+rosevelvet+lining.+My+fingers+caressed+its+golden+wood.+I+tuned+the+strings,+miraculously6+still+intact,+tightened+the+bow,+and+put+rosin+on+the+dry+horsehairs.
And+then+my+violin+began+to+sing+again+those+favorite+tunes+that+had+never+left+my+memory.+How+long+I+played+I’ll+never+know.+I+thought+of+Daddy,+who+did+all+he+could+to+fill+my+needs+and+desires+when+I+was+a+little+girl.+I+wondered+if+I+had+ever+thanked+him.+
At+last+I+laid+the+violin+back+in+its+case.+I+picked+up+the+newspaper,+walked+to+the+phone+and+dialed+the+number.
Later+in+the+day,+an+old+car+stopped+in+my+driveway.+A+man+in+his+thirties+knocked+on+the+door.+“I’ve+been+praying+someone+would+answer+my+ad.+My+daughter+wants+a+violin+so+badly,”+he+said,+examining+my+instrument.+“How+much+are+you+asking?”
Any+music+store,+I+knew,+would+offer+me+a+nice+sum.+But+now+I+heard+my+voice+answer,+“Seven+dollars.”
“Are+you+sure?”+he+asked,+reminding+me+so+much+of+Daddy.
“Seven+dollars,”+I+repeated,+and+then+added,+“I+hope+your+little+girl+will+enjoy+it+as+much+as+I+did.”
I+closed+the+door+behind+him.+Peeking+out+between+the+drapes,+I+saw+his+wife+and+children+waiting+in+the+car.+A+door+suddenly+opened+and+a+young+girl+ran+to+him+as+he+held+out+the+violin+case+to+her.
She+hugged+it+against+her,+then+dropped+to+her+knees+and+snapped+open+the+case.+She+touched+the+violin+lightly+as+it+caught+the+glow+of+the+lateafternoon+sun,+then+turned+and+threw+her+arms+around+her+smiling+father. 无尽的昏迷过后,时宇猛地从床上起身。想要看最新章节内容,请下载星星阅读app,无广告免费阅读最新章节内容。网站已经不更新最新章节内容,已经星星阅读小说APP更新最新章节内容。
他大口的呼吸起新鲜的空气,胸口一颤一颤。
迷茫、不解,各种情绪涌上心头。
这是哪?
随后,时宇下意识观察四周,然后更茫然了。
一个单人宿舍?
就算他成功得到救援,现在也应该在病房才对。
还有自己的身体……怎么会一点伤也没有。
带着疑惑,时宇的视线快速从房间扫过,最终目光停留在了床头的一面镜子上。
镜子照出他现在的模样,大约十七八岁的年龄,外貌很帅。
可问题是,这不是他!下载星星阅读app,阅读最新章节内容无广告免费
之前的自己,是一位二十多岁气宇不凡的帅气青年,工作有段时间了。
而现在,这相貌怎么看都只是高中生的年纪……
这个变化,让时宇发愣很久。
千万别告诉他,手术很成功……
身体、面貌都变了,这根本不是手术不手术的问题了,而是仙术。
他竟完全变成了另外一个人!
难道……是自己穿越了?
除了床头那摆放位置明显风水不好的镜子,时宇还在旁边发现了三本书。
时宇拿起一看,书名瞬间让他沉默。
《新手饲养员必备育兽手册》
《宠兽产后的护理》
《异种族兽耳娘评鉴指南》
时宇:???
前两本书的名字还算正常,最后一本你是怎么回事?
“咳。”
时宇目光一肃,伸出手来,不过很快手臂一僵。
就在他想翻开第三本书,看看这究竟是个什么东西时,他的大脑猛地一阵刺痛,大量的记忆如潮水般涌现。
冰原市。
宠兽饲养基地。
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